My Toxic Trait? I Think Future Me Is Rich.

October 7, 2025

Welcome to the mental gymnastics known as “present bias.” It’s a legit psychological thing—your brain literally overvalues what you want right now over what’s good for later. According to a study from the St. Louis Fed, most people would rather take $20 today than $30 next week because instant gratification hits harder than common sense.

And that’s how you end up living paycheck to paycheck—while your Amazon “Save for Later” list mocks you.


Humans aren’t wired to think long-term with money. We’re dopamine junkies. But the trick isn’t fighting that—it’s outsmarting it. That’s where automation and gamification step in (hi, JJ 👋).

By turning budgeting into a game, you’re basically hacking your brain’s reward system.
Instead of waiting months to “feel good” about saving, Jelli drops those micro dopamine hits along the way. Jar filling up? Reward. Bill paid on time? Medal. Goal hit? Confetti.

It’s budgeting—but with serotonin.


You don’t need a spreadsheet intervention. You just need boundaries, and maybe fewer iced lattes… Start here:

  • 💜 Rename your guilt. It’s not “budgeting,” it’s “funding Future Me’s glow-up.”

  • 🫙 Split your paycheck. Jelli JARS for Bills, Fun, Savings, and “Hot Mess Recovery.”

  • 🎮 Make it visual. Watching jars fill > staring at sad bank numbers.

  • Forgive Past You. JJ says: we’ve all panic-swiped a debit card. What matters is learning, not loathing.

Join the Waitlist today and for your spending detox.


  • Your toxic trait isn’t spending—it’s assuming Future You will fix it later.
  • But if you make budgeting fun now, Future You finally gets a break.
  • And maybe—just maybe—they’ll buy you that sushi roll guilt-free. 🍣

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